Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Servant - Me??

I misread my job title instead of "Administrative Assistant" as I thought - it is actually "Servant."

At least that is what I was informed I was today. Yes, my resident called me her "servant" as I was helping her write a complaint. I simply asked for more details specifically what the person actually said to her and she informed me that she doesn't like talking to the servants! Hmm... Yep, that will help me make sure that this problem is solved a little bit faster!

After finishing my notes from the conversation I went back to my desk and sat there for a minute... I recounted what the resident said to my co-worker and we both just sat there stunned that someone felt that way about us. I informed one of my bosses of the incorrect title and asked when the corrected business cards would arrive. She informed me that because I did so much, I should be promoted to LEAD Servant! Hmm... Wonder if that comes with a pay raise??

This week I will keep repeating to myself: I love my job... I love my job... I love my job.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Happy Birthday Mother!!!



I thank my Heavenly Father everyday for giving me such an understanding and loving mother. In a recent conversation someone asked if I was loved enough as a child (long story) and I quickly replied that I was!

My mother made sure that I knew how much she loved me! I loved sitting next to my mom on the couch and having her play with my hair or rub my back! I remember all the times I was sick Mom would bring me my favorite icecream or yogurt. My friends LOVED to come to our house for sleepovers and just to hang out because I have the coolest parents ever!

I won't ever forget the dress that Mom made for Homecoming. I don't remember ever feeling so pretty in my life! And my mother was there the very next morning drying my tears after learning that some fabrics aren't suppose to be ironed (although I heard some giggles escaping her during that tearful experience). Mothers just know how to make everything better! :)

Mother, I hope and pray everyday that I can at least be half the mother that you have been to me! I LOVE YOU!

Your child #7 - Taci Beth

Monday, October 26, 2009

Alzheimer's Walk

A couple of weeks ago I was able to participate in the 2009 Alzheimer's Walk. Words cannot express the feeling I felt that cold morning. There were 2,400 walkers that signed-up, but only 1/3 showed up due to the cold and wet weather. I will admit that I sorta tried to talk Erin (who brought Alesa) out of actually walking, just get the t-shirts and leave. After listening to the story of a 53 year-old with early on-set Alzheimer's my attitude changed.

I thought of "my" residents and what they must be experiencing. I thought of a resident who always asked me when her mother would pick her up and if I had talked to her. I was reminded of another resident who is slowly forgetting how to walk. I realized that I should forget about myself!! I was there because Alzheimer's is an UGLY disease that needs to be stopped! I was there in support of the research to find a cure for this disease! I was there not for myself but for my resident!!!

My attitude changed at that point! I left "me" behind at the start line and "WALKED TO END ALZHEIMERS!"

I pushed Alesa, with Erin following behind, through the slow walkers and made little goals to reach the final three mile FINISH line! There were tears in my eyes as I looked at the fellow walkers and saw the "in loving memory of" signs they wore bearing the name of a relative or friend. This was my second walk and it won't be my last! I want to thank all those who donated for me individually and my team!! We did GREAT!

Friday, October 23, 2009

Chicken, yes that is me!

Okay, so I have been having nights of lost sleep and deep contemplation and I realized that I just need a break. A break from watching my now former crush make moves on my friend... Am I a chicken? Yes?? Don't get me wrong, I love the two of them and wish them the best in whatever happens.

But I just can't watch it right now.

I am a chicken and my feelings are still close to the surface. Is that wrong? I have tried since the time I was fourteen to figure out how some girls can just rapidly change their feelings for someone... It is still a mystery! For me, I am just going to back out and take a breather!

Maybe I will go for a drive and then watch a ton of war movies! That works as well!! :)

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Hiding...

Yes, I am hiding... I think, for right now, I like the idea of being a hermit.

So, my dear friends, please forgive me.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Halloween

Halloween is coming in just a couple of weeks... ugh! I haven't really been a fan of this holiday even as a kid. I was eleven when I had the best time on this weird holiday of knocking on complete strangers doors and asking for candy. In true pre-teen spirit, I left the house dressed as a princess ran to a friends house across the street and changed. What did I change into?? Well, let's just say that I am extremely embarrassed to admit that!

Needless to say, for that night my friend's mother drove us in the wagon to the golf course houses (best place for all the good candy) and I was walking on cloud nine! :)

Fast forward sixteen years and here I am. Only this time I can't walk out as a princess (too old) and won't even mention the other costume! So, what does a 27 year-old dress up for at Halloween?? In the previous years, I have always hidden away or gone to parties where costumes weren't allowed. This year I have to worry about my residents and a DANCE! That's right, a dance where all the costumes are amazing!! Serious thought goes into some of those costumes all year - - it's that crazy out here!!!

If you have any ideas - feel free to pass them along!

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Congrats!


Happy Anniversary to Logan and Cassie!

Cassie, thanks for being able to put up with Logan these past two years - we all know how difficult he can be!! Ha ha!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Second Chance

Two years ago, I was given a second chance on life.... Literally.

It was the day before my brother Logan's wedding and I decided it was time to get a haircut. I had taken the day off of work to help with the final preparations and spend as much time with my family as possible. Of course, the first step for me was to have my hair cut and styled by my friend Anya. The morning started out typical and like a good girl I ate a healthy breakfast of Captain Crunch and took my medicine.

I arrived at Anya's salon a little early and so I waited in my newly purchased car until she arrived. It was then that I noticed that my chin felt a little funny and upon looking in the mirror could actually see my pulse in my chin. I thought that was a little odd but wasn't too worried. Anya arrived and proceeded to give my hair a nice little choppity-chop!

As my hair was cut shorter, my face literally began to swell shut. Anya kept asking me if I should go to the pharmacy across the street and buy the medicine... I told her I would wait until my hair was finished. I watched as best as I could through swollen eyes as my hands, eyes, mouth and eventually my tongue began to swell shut. It was then I realized something wasn't right. I told Anya that my tongue was swelling and that I needed to go and get the medication NOW!

We arrived at the pharmacy where there was only one really old pharmacist on a phone call. We waited at the counter so we could ask what was the fastest medication I could take to help the swelling go down... He looked over a couple of times, but the phone call was taking forever!! I remember a couple of other people in the store really looking at me and I couldn't figure out why. All of the sudden a wave of dizziness came over me and I ran to a bench before I passed out. Anya was on the phone with my mother and they agreed to take me to the nearest Instacare which was a couple of miles away.

Anya helped me out to the car as I could barely see through my extremely swollen eyelids. We drove approximately .125 miles and I started to feel sick, Anya pulled over and it was a false alarm. She started to pull onto the road again and I yanked the door open and pretty much fell out as I didn't want to get anything on my new car. I remember laying on the ground and couldn't understand why Anya wouldn't let me just lay there. I also remember getting mad at the people who just passed us by because Anya was crying and I didn't have the strength to tell her it was going to be okay. I will never forget Anya saying, "Taci, I just don't know what to do." It was a very scared and lost voice and I remember crying as I prayed that I would have the strength to show her it was okay and I was fine. Eventually I was able to climb back into the car and we made it to the Instacare.

We walked inside and I marched (well in my head I marched) to the front counter and without looking up the nurse asked why I was there. I politely informed her that I thought I was having an allergic reaction, she looked up and from what I could see her face was priceless! She immediately called the nurse and said to take me in the back and started yelling for the doctor. I went in and sat down, the doctor came in and everyone just started running around and looking at the hives which had apparently traveled all over me. I started feeling sick again and they administered the standard medication. The Doctor was yelling that he needed more medication and needed it yesterday!! It's kinda funny looking back. Such a funny guy with a plaid shirt...

Anya was great through the entire ordeal, she patted my leg and I remember her giving them as much information as she could. My parents showed up and where able to give my medical background to the doctors and I was so grateful to have them there. The ambulance was called as the swelling in my mouth hadn't gone down and off I went. As I was being wheeled out the backdoor that the nurses and doctor all stood to the sides grabbing my hands or rubbing my arm wishing me well. I thought they were overreacting a bit at this point, but I was in and out of consciousness so whatever!

In the ambulance, I remember guys with shaved heads and they kept pumping my chest. I tried to tell them that I was pretty sure my heart was still beating but couldn't speak. I arrived at the hospital and was wheeled right into an operating room where they were going to cut open my throat to let air in. I don't remember anything after the ambulance ride, but I am trying to remember what my mom told me. My father and Andrew gave me a blessing and when the doctor did one last check he found some improvement in my condition. Therefore, no need to have any surgery performed! Thank heavens!!!

I had to stay in the hospital for the few more hours and my father stayed with me the entire time. I awoke to the sounds of crinkling paper and turned to see my father eating gummy bears Lindy brought me because he didn't leave even to grab dinner. The doctor showed up and I realized there really are Dr. McDreamy's in the real world. I was informed by Dr. McDreamy that I shouldn't mess with death. I giggled and agreed. He said it wasn't a joke - that even ten seconds later and I may not have made it. Hmm.... Interesting... I informed him that I had no idea what was going on at the time but would pay attention in the future. I was given the okay to leave and climbed back into my car... Then I saw it! I finally saw my face after some of the swelling had gone down. HOLY CRAP!! I quickly forgave the people in the store who gave me funny looks and thought of the movie Hitch when he had his allergic reaction. It's true your face can really look like it did in that movie! CRAZY!!!

Anya arrived shortly after I came home and was able to finish the haircut! I was so grateful to have Anya there to help me in this emergency! I was also extremely grateful to have my parents there as they normally wouldn't have been. I am grateful to have a father and brother-in-law who are worthy and able to administer in a time of need. I am grateful to my entire extended family who said many prayers and sent emails on my behalf. I was reminded how fragile life can be and I won't take that for granted!

In the end, the moral of the story is: If you see your pulse in your chin, RUN to the nearest hospital and ask for Dr. McDreamy!

Thursday, October 8, 2009

That's right, I am talking...

Hello readers (or should I just say family?)...

I have been talking with everyone I know and it seems that this subject comes up quite frequently because, well, I am still single. **GASP!!** I know - how could someone as awesome as myself still be single? That is what my mother tells me and there is always a little truth in what she says, right?

So, I am going to dedicate this next post to dating! Yup, gonna do it! Here goes:

After having a ton of late night conversations with friends and roommates I have made the following decision. Dating is an interesting sport. Yes, I consider dating to fall in the "sport" category. Everyone cheers when you score a date, relationship, marriage.... Everyone will help place the blame on the other team or ref when things just don't work out and you lose.

Dating = Basketball. You are on the defense or offense at various stages of the game. You are part of a team that offers support and blocks those wanting to steal your ball/courage from reaching the basket/date.

So listen up team! Here are guidelines before you hit the court!

~ Don't be afraid to make the first move by simply asking someone on a date - that goes for boys or girls! Girls, we live in a new age!
~ Be open and honest in your communication of how you feel things are going. It makes it easier for both parties further down the road!
~ Just because a guy/girl asks you out - DON'T JUMP TO MARRIAGE! RELAX!!! Enjoy a night where you aren't home watching television (that's why we have hulu) and get to know the person. If it leads to a second, third, or even a fourth - still doesn't mean marriage just that you are enjoying the companionship.
~ Stop the group hanging out! If you like someone, don't have a party or movie night with a bunch of people, CALL.
~ Dates don't have to be expensive! If you need ideas - please ask!

Well, I can go on and on! Don't worry, I will spare you. Everyone is different - i.e. I am girl who would rather just be told up front that there isn't an interest rather than losing that friendship. Other girls like the nonverbal communication, I just couldn't ever catch on. I know, I know... silly Taci!

It takes a lot of courage to ask someone on a date, I have done it! Just remember sometimes things don't work out with the person you thought it would. BUT!!! I've never believed in there only being "THE ONE"... With so many good people out there, I don't think that there is ever just one.

Good luck! GO - FIGHT - DATE!!!

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Smile!

I LOVE to smile and I LOVE to laugh! Both of which I haven't been doing enough of lately... These are examples of things that brought a smile or a laugh to me over the last little couple of weeks.

1) Getting a text in the wee hours of the morning wishing me a great day at work!
2) Having a stranger hold open the door.
3) Coming home and finding that the dishes are done and put away.
4) Receiving a call from a sibling who just wants to talk.
5) Getting a funny and unexpected letter in the mail.
6) Having my residents comment on my beautiful skin (ha ha!).
7) Blushing when my crush looks my way...
8) Friends that I can call upon when help is needed no matter how late.
9) Crisp Fall air when I walk outside.
10) Getting a new calculator! :)
11) Pinata!
12) Seeing hours of hard work pay off.
13) Smiles from a little niece as she recognizes me.
14) Hymns.
15) Pictures that really are worth more than a thousand words
16) Vanilla ice cream cone covered with the cherry dip/sprinkles!
17) Being told that I have the most beautiful eyes.
18) Watching a guy trip on the curb - laughing because I've done the exact same thing!

There are so many more I can name but these are at the top! Share the love! Bring out a smile!

Thursday, October 1, 2009

50th Anniversary Gala

It's OVER!!! All my hard work and long hours and we are done!! YES! I am sitting at home and it is only 4:00 PM! WOW! I have an entire evening to just PARTY! Plus, today is my friend Merry's birthday and so we are going to dinner to celebrate! Seriously, this is a great day!!!

I just noticed that I have been using a ton of exclamation points but it can't be helped!! :)

Okay - back the the Gala...

I got to work at 7:00 AM and it was as if we hadn't been working late the previous two days at all! I was scrambling as name tags suddenly had legs and walked off! My tablecloths for the Silent Auction were removed to be placed on the bar and so the stress I felt was a bit much at this point! It was the beginning of a CRAZY day - I even got into a yelling match with my boss's boss! Dumb move!? Yep, thought that I was going to be packing my bags at that moment! I still can't believe that I lost it a little bit there.
Fortunately for me, I had to make a trip to Michael's and Staples to pick up items and could get a breather. Also, Erin showed up and like a great big sister made me feel better and get energized! I always felt like I could handle a situation pretty well with people that like to push buttons, I was wrong. Don't worry, by the end of the night he hugged me and said that the auction was the best one he'd seen and appreciated all hard work and long hours! Whew!! I didn't realize how stressed out I was until this morning when I got up and could barely move because my entire body is sore! Tears were shed (what?? I'm a GIRL!) and with the many prayers said by wonderful friends and myself... I survived.

Good news is that I met Senator McCain! He is very nice and he touched my arm! Yes, I am learning to rub shoulders with the up and ups! Ha ha ha! NO! I was just lucky to be standing in a good spot as he walked by. :)

I do have pictures, but due to HIPPA can only post those without residents, unless I can crop out their faces. Hmm.. Maybe I will try that! It was a great night and the Silent Auction looked very classy and elegant, just the way that I wanted it! OH! I can't forget the gorgeous dress that my friend Rachel let me borrow! I felt like a queen! I had so many compliments on the dress that I might not give it back to her! This final pic is of Kristina, Daryel and myself after the Gala ended and we were packing up to go home around 10:45 PM. It was a long day and we were all tired, but we made a GREAT team! Seriously, I would do anything with those two!
I will post what I can! Thanks for the many prayers and putting up with my crazed attitude the past couple of weeks! I am ready to party and enjoy life once more!